{"id":236,"date":"2006-08-13T18:24:58","date_gmt":"2006-08-14T01:24:58","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2006-08-13T18:36:13","modified_gmt":"2006-08-13T18:36:13","slug":"how_transgender_folk_are_fixing_an_age_o","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sarahdopp.com\/blog\/2006\/how_transgender_folk_are_fixing_an_age_o\/","title":{"rendered":"How transgender folk are fixing an age-old literary problem"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"juiz-outdated-message jodpm-top\">Heads up, this content is 20 years old. Please keep its age in mind while reading.<\/div><p>Here&#8217;s something that you may not be aware of unless there is a transgender person in your life:  <b>Not everyone wants to be referred to as &#8220;he&#8221; or &#8220;she.&#8221;<\/b>  There are a number of reasons for this, which we won&#8217;t get into here, but it really opens a big can of worms in our language.  What do we call these people if we can&#8217;t say &#8220;he&#8221; or &#8220;she&#8221; (and no one really wants to be called &#8220;it&#8221;)?The answer: <b>Gender neutral pronouns!<\/b>  What are they?  Well, there are a <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Gender-neutral_pronoun\">a few proposed options floating around<\/a>, but here&#8217;s the set I&#8217;ve heard used the most:<b>ze<\/b> (pronounced &#8220;zee&#8221;)<b>hir<\/b> (pronounced &#8220;here&#8221;)For example:<b>Ze<\/b> is at the park.I called <b>hir<\/b> last night.  <b>Hir<\/b> dog is adorable.The cat is also <b>hirs<\/b>.<b>Ze<\/b> made <b>hirself<\/b> dinner.These are, or course, not in common usage yet.  But can you just imagine how much easier they&#8217;ll make our language if we pull them <i>into<\/i> common usage and reach total comfort with them?  <b>Think of all the times you&#8217;ve wanted to say &#8220;he\/she&#8221; or &#8220;he or she.&#8221;<\/b>  You either settled on the awkward but accurate phrase, or you picked something easier.  Maybe you said &#8220;he&#8221; and pissed off a feminist.  Maybe you said &#8220;they&#8221; and pissed off a grammarian.  Maybe you alternated between &#8220;he&#8221; and &#8220;she&#8221; in your paragraph and confused people.  Maybe you totally restructured the entire sentence so you didn&#8217;t have to deal with the problem.  Wouldn&#8217;t it have been nice to have had a gender neutral pronoun on hand?It happens all the time in hypothetical situations, especially in writing.  It&#8217;s also an issue when you&#8217;re talking about someone in particular and hir gender hasn&#8217;t been identified yet.  Wouldn&#8217;t it be great if you could just refer to hir as &#8220;ze,&#8221; come across as totally cool and non-offensive, and get to the point without floundering on word choice?I would argue that this isn&#8217;t about politics, or gender presentation, or wreaking havoc on our current system in any way.  This is about <b>a problem in our language<\/b>, and a solution that&#8217;s just waiting for us to pick it up.  It may be too early to start throwing the pronouns around in your daily speech and expecting people to understand them.  But it&#8217;s not too early to start talking about it.  That&#8217;s how it needs to spread.  <b>Tell someone you know about gender neutral pronouns<\/b>, and why they will make hir life easier once we&#8217;re all comfortable with their usage.  Ze may thank you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Heads up, this content is 20 years old. 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